Coostietightner123
Established Member
Hey, I’m reading this, and like many others have….we see a lot of ourselves in this. So thank you for being brave enough to share with us. And that’s a key word….”Brave”Thank you so much, your words have helped me in a way I can’t describe, crying as I read this, the whole thing has made me feel such a worthless person, scared of even getting in a car, it’s good to know I’m not alone, I have never felt anything like this and it has certainly changed my whole mindset, I’m so so glad I found this forum, it is helping me immensely x
We all felt that and went through that period of utter disbelief, self loathing. Nobody is gonna punish you as much as your punishing yourself right now. But, it WILL pass. For most of us, the healing and rebuilding process comes after the court process is complete. Then and only then can you turn the page and begin this new chapter. Your in with a good crowd here. There is any amount of help, support and great advice. Look, you never know how strong you are, or what your capable of until your really tested. Yes, you are probably gonna have to address your drinking habits. And whilst it’s not for me to judge, all I’ll say is, that if you also have a partner who drinks, that makes things harder. The reason I say this, is because I had those very same circumstances. That’s a tough one, you alone can deal with that and it wouldn’t be right for me to comment any further. This is a blip. You were lucky. You have your life in front of you. Use the time wisely, don’t waste that time obsessing about getting your licence back. Start being positive, when you’ve been through that court date. Put it behind you. Lift your head up, smile and put one foot in front of the other. Walk with dignity. We all react differently. Some hide away in shame others are open about it. That’s for you to decide. Perspective is a key word here. You were silly. You broke the law. You have your health, and your future and friends and family. Nobody died, you didn’t hurt anyone.
Trust me, you will be just fine.
Stiff upper lip and crack on