twinmummy2be
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hi all,
really need advice re my re application for my licence after disqualification is up. was Banned due to failure to give a specimen (only offence)
im hoping someone can help and brutal honesty is what i need right now! so i got banned for failure to give a specimen in 2018.
9 years clean licence previous, got 20 months ban. licence was due back in june 2020 and still stuck on the application. spoken to my doctor who has given me the go ahead as fit to drive. but ive never spoken to him personally or any doctor for that matter about alcohol issues. i wish it was as simple as that but it isnt, i have spoken to other professionals and this is on file, so that said my doctor i cant really take advice from now can i? when i mention i was diagnosed with a mental health problem in 2019 there gonna want to see this arent they? even though my doctor says it doesnt affect my driving, i am open about trauma in my life and how i have used alcohol as a coping mechanism on and off from a young age and how at the time i was getting support for it
that said i have had instances of misuse in the past and was diagnosed after loosing my licence with unstable personality disorder, in my diagnosis report it basically details all my problems about how much my life sucked growing up and how i turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism
(this sounds bad but im laughing at what ive just wrote cos i think it says it all)
anyway i mention a history of on and off drinking but not like persistently i mean in between i was living and working and raised children and went uni etc
however some of the later was affected by alcohol misuse because i had serious inability to cope like a normal person at that time with regards to traumatic life events, and again did use alcohol as a coping mechanism
i really hope im not offending anyone with the above im just not that person anymore so i think the real issue im having to be honest is the new me really mad at the old me!! also being open about this is so hard because i so badly want my licence back cos i deserve it back given i dont have this issue anymore with alcohol
during 2018 and 2019 i also had a domestic with an ex who called the police on me, this resulted in me assaulting a police officer whilst intoxicated and having to go to aspire for 6 months
i have according to my doctor got one incident which mentions alcohol abuse when i sadly tried to take my life whilst intoxicated in 2018, however my doctor tried to be positive about this by saying that even judges or nurses or even doctors try to take their lives so its just an isolated incident???
i completed my time with aspire and showed controlled drinking after i got my mental health diagnosis which is positive however the battle wasnt over back then, i lost two family members christmas day 2019 and attempted to seek support again from aspire because i felt the misuse starting again but ended up having bereavement counselling which was self referred and not through my doctor, so never used the aspire service again but apparently they have me as discharged in april 2020
my road to recovery began after the bereavement counselling and i have not had any issues with alcohol since. in fact i fell pregnant with twins in july 2020 and havent felt the need to turn to alcohol to cope with anything since!
there is nothing regarding alcohol or anything for that matter on my medical file since september 2020 when i spoke to my doctor about reapplying for my licence again
with regards to my missuse issues in the past, ive never been on any medication or in rehab for alcohol issues, im healthy and fit and never had an illness because of alcohol
my current circumstances are no misuse and no intention to since last year before i had the bereavement counselling (april 2020)
im not on any medication for my mental health anymore as feeling better which is written on my file
30 weeks pregnant with twins written on my file
wanting to get back on the road and move forward in my life
so my question i suppose i am asking is do i tick yes to regularly misused and if so should i provide 6 months bloods? or do i tick no because its not regular and isnt happening now but write a covering letter saying i am including 6 months bloods? i find my circumstances really unique as i am sure everyones are, hence the need for advice
oh and just to add i have now moved so have a new doctor, i have rang this doctor but he couldnt help with the questionaire any further he just said be as honest as you can, he did confirm though that it is on my file that my previous doctor has stated i am fit to drive back in september 2020.
really need advice re my re application for my licence after disqualification is up. was Banned due to failure to give a specimen (only offence)
im hoping someone can help and brutal honesty is what i need right now! so i got banned for failure to give a specimen in 2018.
9 years clean licence previous, got 20 months ban. licence was due back in june 2020 and still stuck on the application. spoken to my doctor who has given me the go ahead as fit to drive. but ive never spoken to him personally or any doctor for that matter about alcohol issues. i wish it was as simple as that but it isnt, i have spoken to other professionals and this is on file, so that said my doctor i cant really take advice from now can i? when i mention i was diagnosed with a mental health problem in 2019 there gonna want to see this arent they? even though my doctor says it doesnt affect my driving, i am open about trauma in my life and how i have used alcohol as a coping mechanism on and off from a young age and how at the time i was getting support for it
that said i have had instances of misuse in the past and was diagnosed after loosing my licence with unstable personality disorder, in my diagnosis report it basically details all my problems about how much my life sucked growing up and how i turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism
(this sounds bad but im laughing at what ive just wrote cos i think it says it all)
anyway i mention a history of on and off drinking but not like persistently i mean in between i was living and working and raised children and went uni etc
however some of the later was affected by alcohol misuse because i had serious inability to cope like a normal person at that time with regards to traumatic life events, and again did use alcohol as a coping mechanism
i really hope im not offending anyone with the above im just not that person anymore so i think the real issue im having to be honest is the new me really mad at the old me!! also being open about this is so hard because i so badly want my licence back cos i deserve it back given i dont have this issue anymore with alcohol
during 2018 and 2019 i also had a domestic with an ex who called the police on me, this resulted in me assaulting a police officer whilst intoxicated and having to go to aspire for 6 months
i have according to my doctor got one incident which mentions alcohol abuse when i sadly tried to take my life whilst intoxicated in 2018, however my doctor tried to be positive about this by saying that even judges or nurses or even doctors try to take their lives so its just an isolated incident???
i completed my time with aspire and showed controlled drinking after i got my mental health diagnosis which is positive however the battle wasnt over back then, i lost two family members christmas day 2019 and attempted to seek support again from aspire because i felt the misuse starting again but ended up having bereavement counselling which was self referred and not through my doctor, so never used the aspire service again but apparently they have me as discharged in april 2020
my road to recovery began after the bereavement counselling and i have not had any issues with alcohol since. in fact i fell pregnant with twins in july 2020 and havent felt the need to turn to alcohol to cope with anything since!
there is nothing regarding alcohol or anything for that matter on my medical file since september 2020 when i spoke to my doctor about reapplying for my licence again
with regards to my missuse issues in the past, ive never been on any medication or in rehab for alcohol issues, im healthy and fit and never had an illness because of alcohol
my current circumstances are no misuse and no intention to since last year before i had the bereavement counselling (april 2020)
im not on any medication for my mental health anymore as feeling better which is written on my file
30 weeks pregnant with twins written on my file
wanting to get back on the road and move forward in my life
so my question i suppose i am asking is do i tick yes to regularly misused and if so should i provide 6 months bloods? or do i tick no because its not regular and isnt happening now but write a covering letter saying i am including 6 months bloods? i find my circumstances really unique as i am sure everyones are, hence the need for advice
oh and just to add i have now moved so have a new doctor, i have rang this doctor but he couldnt help with the questionaire any further he just said be as honest as you can, he did confirm though that it is on my file that my previous doctor has stated i am fit to drive back in september 2020.