lonelygirl
New Member
Hi everyone,
So we are all here for the same reason, and i appreciate this site in giving people like us somewhere to go so that we feel we are less alone in our problems. People keep telling me since that fateful night that "its not the end of the world, and we all make mistakes ,but no matter what anybody says, no matter how reassured we find ourselves, that sinking feeling always returns where you know your the reason your life is ruined. Anyway i wanted to ask what anyone would think my likely sentancing will be, i refused to give the breath sample as the police actually knocked my door and arrested me.I had no idea they could do that but they did. In hindsight i shouldnt of answered the door but stupidly i did. Anyway im now on bail and due in court soon. Does anyone think that the court will be more leniant if i put forward the mitigating factors that i am estranged from both parents and the sole carer for my ailing grandparents? I want to put forward my case but i dont want it to look like im using that as some kind of excuse , however i do think that my circumstances are behind the reason i drink. I have recently been accepted into a good uni and life was going reasonably well but there was part of me that felt i didnt deserve to be this happy and in a way i kinda knew i would **** things up for myself. Well really have ****ed it up now but i am hoping that if i get a community order it will not interfere with my uni in september? I think its the not knowing thats making me so depressed tbh any advise would be greatly appreciated. I also am not sure about paying for a solicitor as not sure how it works but one defence solicitor wanted to charge 995 just to attend court with me. Its all a bit of a minefield and i feel like i dont know who to turn to. Is there really any chance that i will not be convicted if i paid for a good solicitor? I really want to get an idea of what i will get as my anxiety is going through the roof.I was under suicide watch in the police station.Will the court be notified of my mental state and if so could that go in my favour? I appreciate any advice
So we are all here for the same reason, and i appreciate this site in giving people like us somewhere to go so that we feel we are less alone in our problems. People keep telling me since that fateful night that "its not the end of the world, and we all make mistakes ,but no matter what anybody says, no matter how reassured we find ourselves, that sinking feeling always returns where you know your the reason your life is ruined. Anyway i wanted to ask what anyone would think my likely sentancing will be, i refused to give the breath sample as the police actually knocked my door and arrested me.I had no idea they could do that but they did. In hindsight i shouldnt of answered the door but stupidly i did. Anyway im now on bail and due in court soon. Does anyone think that the court will be more leniant if i put forward the mitigating factors that i am estranged from both parents and the sole carer for my ailing grandparents? I want to put forward my case but i dont want it to look like im using that as some kind of excuse , however i do think that my circumstances are behind the reason i drink. I have recently been accepted into a good uni and life was going reasonably well but there was part of me that felt i didnt deserve to be this happy and in a way i kinda knew i would **** things up for myself. Well really have ****ed it up now but i am hoping that if i get a community order it will not interfere with my uni in september? I think its the not knowing thats making me so depressed tbh any advise would be greatly appreciated. I also am not sure about paying for a solicitor as not sure how it works but one defence solicitor wanted to charge 995 just to attend court with me. Its all a bit of a minefield and i feel like i dont know who to turn to. Is there really any chance that i will not be convicted if i paid for a good solicitor? I really want to get an idea of what i will get as my anxiety is going through the roof.I was under suicide watch in the police station.Will the court be notified of my mental state and if so could that go in my favour? I appreciate any advice