ap123
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I know you don't need to know the ins and outs but feel this gives a background.
My ex partner (who is violent) threw me out of his house on Thursday when I dropped our children off. He then blocked me so I had no way of contacting him to see if our children were ok (after visibly hearing them distressed at what they had seen). We have been split over a year.
I then went home as he refused to open the door or let me see my children. That evening a friend came to keep me company and we had some drinks (wine and prosecco) until around 3am. I got up at around 7.30am (felt fine). My children were dropped off at around 8.30am that morning.
My son had a hair appointment at 11.30 that day, I felt fine and drove him to it. On the way back I was followed and pulled over and breathalised with a reading of 120! I dont know how the hell it is was this high. They took me to the station. That evening at 6.30pm I was still reading 92! I had eaten nothing and the whole time I was there was only given 1 cup of tea despite asking for drinks and food. I felt fine throughout the whole ordeal, was completely understanding of what was going on, there is no way on gods earth I would have gotten into a car knowingly over the limit for a stupid hair appointment. Just no way.
Now I am responsible for getting my children to nursery and school then myself to work (I am the sole carer and provider) my ex doesn't work.
I am absolutely scared out of my head about going to court on the 31st.
Can someone tell me what I can expect please?
I'm 31, never been in trouble with the police. Only been driving for just over 3 months.
Please help.
Do I need to take a solicitor with me? I don't understand how it was still so high, Its not like it was a night out of doing shots or anything? I have had no medication which interferes with alcohol either....
Please help :-(
My ex partner (who is violent) threw me out of his house on Thursday when I dropped our children off. He then blocked me so I had no way of contacting him to see if our children were ok (after visibly hearing them distressed at what they had seen). We have been split over a year.
I then went home as he refused to open the door or let me see my children. That evening a friend came to keep me company and we had some drinks (wine and prosecco) until around 3am. I got up at around 7.30am (felt fine). My children were dropped off at around 8.30am that morning.
My son had a hair appointment at 11.30 that day, I felt fine and drove him to it. On the way back I was followed and pulled over and breathalised with a reading of 120! I dont know how the hell it is was this high. They took me to the station. That evening at 6.30pm I was still reading 92! I had eaten nothing and the whole time I was there was only given 1 cup of tea despite asking for drinks and food. I felt fine throughout the whole ordeal, was completely understanding of what was going on, there is no way on gods earth I would have gotten into a car knowingly over the limit for a stupid hair appointment. Just no way.
Now I am responsible for getting my children to nursery and school then myself to work (I am the sole carer and provider) my ex doesn't work.
I am absolutely scared out of my head about going to court on the 31st.
Can someone tell me what I can expect please?
I'm 31, never been in trouble with the police. Only been driving for just over 3 months.
Please help.
Do I need to take a solicitor with me? I don't understand how it was still so high, Its not like it was a night out of doing shots or anything? I have had no medication which interferes with alcohol either....
Please help :-(